goldbug9999

That applies not just who you talk to but how as well, beta men have a special talking-to-attractive-women mode that kicks in which is tends to be a mixture of fear fawning supplication and awkwardness. Have you noticed that movies often glorify this, as in go overboard on a bloke fawning over a woman or being excruciatingly awkward but they make it somehow funny and endearing and the guys ends up getting to girl. Well that, dear friends is you being programmed to proudly display your beta-ness to any woman of quality so that she instantly knows to discount you. Of course its hard not to act this way because the social programming has been so intensive, I still catch myself doing it but learning to recognising it when you catch yourself or others doing it is the first step.

Well what works (or worked) for me is creating the opportunity (i.e. privacy at hers or yours) and limiting my escalation to non overtly sexual stuff like holding hands. I find that of you let her be the one to cross the line as in a kiss or copping a feel, then she feels safe and in control and get uninhibited very quickly. As I said that my personal style so I'm not going to portray it as a magic general formula. Although I do think that holding hands is golden, it displayed confidence and just tips you past the "friends" line. The other thing is that you cant really have a plan with any one specific date, you will be over thinking everything, you cant read loads of PUA/manophere/dosdobs advice and then expect to be killing it, it takes quite a few attempt-fail-adapt cycles, it wont start working until you have all the fuck giving beating out of you.

I think you did everything right, you were your real DGAF self and not dominated by a scarcity mindset , thats massive TBH given that youve not been on many dates in recent times. Remember that getting a shag on a first date is actually very rare occurrence, getting a second date is probably less than a 50/50 probability (for non uber chads anyway).

Thats sort of the opposite of what you said in your earlier account, or are you saying you lurched from one extreme to the other ?

This is the way that modern states operate, they ensure that its almost impossible for even normal conscientious people to commit absolutely zero crime but they allow people to get away with trivial stuff so long as it suites them. When they want to persecute someone they simply do a trawl and pin a bunch of those things on them and hey ho your now a "criminal".

None of the MSM report on the mortgage case give any actual specifics of the offence other than an amount of £160,000, here is TRs own explanation: TL;DR he lent a family member some money which they didnt declare and they lied about their income (presumably a self-cert effort as was common at the time).

Yeah your right, he should just fuck off and not interfere with our glorious government and media telling us what to do, how to think and which crimes our islamic brothers are allowed to commit with impunity.

Fair comment, but I suspect the problem is also that he cant maintain a healthy separation between the two. This also ties in with a comment earlier about treating women as people and not objectives - if your desperate then you interactions are sex driven, if its all about sex you see women through a particular lens which is bad for you and bad for them (and they can smell it a mile off). The paradox here than confident men (who at some point have lots of sex with lots of women) actually humanise women more through their interactions than desperate betas who just see them as a potential shag while dressing that up as being "nice" and "caring".

Well thats why the point is to shag loads of them. TONA clearly has some self destructive behaviour patterns that are triggered by the prospect of sex, it seems similar to a phobia in the sense of it being something thats a big deal and causes irrational behaviour. Hence my recommended treatment of desensitisation via consistent exposure for a decent period of time until hes completely "meh" about shagging.

You're behaving like a desperate teenage beta virgin. You need to get rid of this outcome dependence, when you with a burd you need to be prepared for all outcomes yet expecting none of them. Your problems are as follows: You set out with a goal in mind You appear to be desperate for sex You have deep rooted beta personality traits (instincts to "open up" to them and to supplicate generally) Since you are repeating essentially the same behaviour pattern over and over again there is clearly some deeply rooted problem that you need to fix. I don't know what to suggest really, maybe take a months holiday in Thailand fucking everything that moves. I mean seriously, do think its normal behaviour to admit to a date that you took Viagra in the hope of scoring ??.

My admittedly unscientific perception is that its women who are mostly at vanguard of the SJW/PC/inclusion/etc movement.

Completely agree, women have brought this on themselves, no fucking sympathy whatsoever. Womens sport is going to be even more marginalised and low paid because lets face it only men wanting to ogle women watch womens sport , and we dont want to ogle blokes in skirts.

Its because the note was from a sub-chad guy in looks which makes it "creepy" and "offensive" , if it had been from a chad shed be busy tying to find him so she could take it up her arse, rather making videos about it.

Bear in mind the allowance is only on realised gains i.e. if you keep some investment for 5 years and it make 10k appreciation every year then when you come to cash it in you only get the allowance in that year so youd still pay tax on 38k or so of those gains.

Third type: those who make money by convincing other that they can.