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  1. Snow bird

    The Threat of Post Modernism?

    I was once in a position that found me explaining to lay people why one object was stronger than another. It was pure strength of materials and mathematical formula. Many times I was faced with, "But that is just your opinion." I would explain that, no, it was not an opinion it was established engineering. Made no difference. They believed what they wanted to believe and facts just got in the way. I have to put it down to a very poor education and general knowledge. And . . . "You can't fix stupid."
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    Change your mind. Call him back and bloody GO!
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    This! I am pretty sure that exactly explains the problems I had in my first marriage. How would a guy back then ever know or even understand the concept? Fast forward 30 years and some of the young men are figuring it out because of the internet. The times, they are a changing!
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    Yes. I have daughters of this age and their friends are doing exactly the same. The reason they give is that they just get bored and are looking for a fun time. The corollary of that is that the family law situation tells them that they can and if they get caught there are no consequences or even profits to be made. Make of it what you will but the problem is deep seated in society. Basically the women fool around because they can.
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    Return to ToS: Website Improvements

    Bullshit
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    So you are hungry and you fancy a steak but you can't find a steak bar but there is a hamburger stand right where you are. Do you go hungry or do you grab a burger and look for the steak bar later? Duh! burgers and steaks are not mutually exclusive. You can have both, depends on availability and price and delivery. It is called the sexual market place. It ain't called the sexual distribution center.
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    My guess is that you are exactly what he needs and t'other way around. We do expect a field report . . . . with photos!
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    You are exaggerating the age thing. Physical fitness is way more relevant, especially for a woman. The girl friend before this one was 73 and I do admit it was better with the lights out but she was just as into it as the 40 year old before that. Let nature take its course. Don't fight it and enjoy. Life is too short. Yee Haw!
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    A while back I would have said "no" but I have to change that idea because I do have a number of women friends. And your age too. I think the sexual thing is always there at some sort of level but if it is not mutual it can be put into limbo. Things change and it might come out of limbo later. There are also different levels of relationship that can be brought into play. Your uninterest in a sexual encounter is normal female reaction to a new relationship. Be prepared that it might change and your feelings begin to change. Don't be afraid of that. By way of encouragement my girl friend is the same age as you and after giving up on all of that 14 years ago is now hot to trot and having a wild old time. Another woman I dance with had the "never again" approach but after a year of dancing and meeting people I can tell she is looking at life differently. I would bet dollars to donuts she gets a boy friend soon. Never say never. Quite truly we just don't know ourselves.
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    We had thought about that and decided to start off in a private home. Women can't demand access to a private house . . . yet. But a question: over here we have all sorts of women's groups and they are never challenged. Do you have the same and if so how do the women justify complaining about men's groups when they have women's groups?
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    Good insight. I think you are right. I will dump the porn idea and concentrate on more general life skills and basic interactions. Thanks for your thoughts. We really need to bounce ideas around and dosbods is very good at that. I've noticed that it is very easy to take ideas too far when nobody is feeding stuff back at you. There is probably a psychological phrase for that. I've noticed it with many different ideas and schemes. Whatever it is it is particularly difficult to see in yourself. That's what friends are for!
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    Well it felt that way. Nobody is accusing anybody of anything. It is just speculation and it is among my man friends only. No women are suggesting that . . . . yet! Quite possibly they think it. When a hot 30 year old is trying to get laid in the back of a car and the 28 year old guy can't get it up there is something wrong. As the leader and father figure to this group I am fishing around for solutions. They confide in me and I would like to help. Casting aspersions on my friends' characters is not helpful and I thought it was aggressive. Being afraid (of what?) for your own safety is pure hyperbole. Running away is hardly adult. Can you and I start again?
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    Thanks for that. We already go for coffee after dance, anyone welcome, and it definitely helps but some guys need more and I suspect they need that male bonding thing . . . and a few tips! After coffee I take my girl friend to my place so it has to be a separate man's group at another time but your scenario is sound, just can't work it that way. Thanks for the input, appreciated.
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    The men are comparable age. The women fall into both groups. Looking for a fun shag and looking for a long term relationship. The women also range from well off to dead broke. Don't get me wrong. Not all men are in need of help. some of us are doing just fine thanks but there is a group of otherwise decent guys (not ugly) and in all age groups that never "get it" and it is those guys I am trying to help.
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    Deluded Old Scrapper Birds On Dating Sites

    That's a bit of an odd comment. Comes across as a personal attack. Anyways these guys are not personal friends they are guys that show up to my dance class. However they could be friends and I see nothing wrong with having a friend who is addicted to porn or anything else for that matter. Except for their inability to interact with women they are otherwise totally normal guys. Salt of the earth kinda men. Got jobs, very capable with house renovations and car mechanics, easy to talk to. They are interested in women and want to have a girl friend but have no idea how to approach a woman and even less how to develop a relationship. They have a problem and if I can help them out with that problem I would like to. The men only club is only an idea so far and I was asking for advice or experience with such an idea. I have no clue if these guys are addicted to porn, or anything else for that matter but it is one explanation of their situation. They are not being accused of that, it is just one possibility that my closer friends and I have considered.