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Kids Too Shit Scared To Have Sex Any More

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Millennials are waiting longer to have sex, with one in eight still virgins at 26 years old, new research has found.

The sharp rise in the number of young people waiting longer to have sex may be because of a "fear of intimacy" and the pressure of social media, according to analysts.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/05/06/millennials-turned-sex-study-suggests-one-eight-still-virgins/

 

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Not surprised at all.

And if one in 8 blokes are admitting  being virgins, then the actual number is higher.

I keep in touch with folk in my old job and I've met the current batch of 23-30 year old dudes in junior jobs .... They are all basically long term celibate. I know that cause most have been working there 5+ years and only about every one in 5 of them have any evidence of romantic female company in that time.

 I think there's been a big change since about 2012 - the year Tinder was released.

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In the western world virtually all of the women will only have sex with the top 20% of men while the top 20% of men will screw a fugly occasionally.  So 80% of the men get nothing the top 20 % of both men and women get shit loads and the bottom 80% of women get subsistence level.  It was like this before civilization so we are just reverting to "natural".   Any large group that sticks to one man one women will take us  over by holding hands and walking down main street. 

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4 minutes ago, sarahbell said:

Fear of being accused of rape?
Fear of being photographed and displayed for the world to see?
Fear of STDs?
Fear of only meeting nutjobs?

Naaaa..... Most guys can't get a girl friend for love nor money 'cos all the girls are chasing Chad Thundercock.  Meanwhile, back at the ranch, Chad has a different girl every night and the girls are fighting each other over who is next. 

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1 hour ago, Snow bird said:

Naaaa..... Most guys can't get a girl friend for love nor money 'cos all the girls are chasing Chad Thundercock.  Meanwhile, back at the ranch, Chad has a different girl every night and the girls are fighting each other over who is next. 

Honestly, it was like that in the 1980s when I had just started work. I knew some guys who were having over a hundred burds a year.

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4 minutes ago, davidg said:

Honestly, it was like that in the 1980s when I had just started work. I knew some guys who were having over a hundred burds a year.

Aye I'd be interested to know if anyone actually knows a Tinder Chad in real life, i.e. a top tier good looking alpha who photoraphs well and is actually banging tons of girls on Tinder.

Since I don't actually hang about with such chaps, they only exist as a theoretical idea but they must be out there. Would be fascinating to get access to Tinder's databases and chat logs and see what the stats are.

And the fact that I'd be interested in getting access to a database to run the stats, shows why I'm not getting laid.

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Knew guys that were trainee pyschiatric nurses in the 80s. Lived in the nurses home. Had to shag continuously otherwise you were considered gay. It was basically on tap. Still at least I definitely wasn't a nerd doing my computer work and had great tales to tell of divide by zero errors.

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15 minutes ago, JoeDavola said:

Aye I'd be interested to know if anyone actually knows a Tinder Chad in real life, i.e. a top tier good looking alpha who photoraphs well and is actually banging tons of girls on Tinder.

I don't but I've known 5 or 6 guys who were incredibly successful at picking up women... and all were fairly ugly looking (although possibly masculine features like boxer noses etc).... they were all very, very confident. One guy I shared a house with used to order Durex in bulk he needed so many. He would go down the road for some bread and come back with a girl he'd picked up in the queue, he sometimes bang shop staff he'd chatted up during their lunch hour in the car-park.

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If you have good hygiene  a  BMW or a n Audi, and a house too as a bloke, that will put you in the top 20%.

With the low wage, temporary zero hours nature of the job market, that makes it a few winners taking it all world. Like Amazon winners takes it all.

Maybe if you're a millennial youtuber with 1m+subs you'll have fans literally mobbing you. These are new Elvis's of this generation.

Go to 6.15 for the action. Unexpected mobbing.

 

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10 hours ago, davidg said:

I don't but I've known 5 or 6 guys who were incredibly successful at picking up women... and all were fairly ugly looking (although possibly masculine features like boxer noses etc).... they were all very, very confident. One guy I shared a house with used to order Durex in bulk he needed so many. He would go down the road for some bread and come back with a girl he'd picked up in the queue, he sometimes bang shop staff he'd chatted up during their lunch hour in the car-park.

I knew a guy like this, good mate of mine actually, known him since we were teenagers. He was short, too. What he had was lashings of confidence and social skills. And you can’t fake or learn the second. You’re born with it. Sorry.

of course now he’s a fat short bald fifty something company director with 2.3 kids etc so isn’t getting the same action. But in his day... holy crap. We shared a room for a year at uni, and I used to routinely kip on the sofa. Except one Saturday night where his bird told me to clear off to the bedroom because she wanted to be shagged round the living room all night... 😆

ETA whereas me - tall dark fit and handsome yet introvert and doing a science degree. Four years at uni without even coming close to a single shag.

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10 hours ago, JoeDavola said:

Aye I'd be interested to know if anyone actually knows a Tinder Chad in real life, i.e. a top tier good looking alpha who photoraphs well and is actually banging tons of girls on Tinder.

Yes. Handsome guy with a French accent, who is: a skilled musician, an artist, and has started his own computer games company. His wife left him a year ago, and he discovered Tinder. Drowning in pussy!

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1 minute ago, spunko2010 said:

Nobody has mentioned porn. That's the real reason millennials aren't having sex as much. 

Yes.

Much as I dislike him these days Bob Geldof, born 1951 in small town Ireland, gave a telling insight into the world as was in that he said he could not conceive what a twat (his word, meaning female genitalia) looked like as a teenager.  My memories of growing up in the 70s were similar.  I think the first time I saw it depicted was in a pron mag that was being loaned out at school when I was thirteen.

In that sort of environment there is no decent substitute for sex or easy access to that substitute as there is these days so there was strong desire (usually unfulfilled) for the opposite sex and going both ways, not just boys pursuing girls.

Nowadays there is so much freely available high definition full colour hardcore pron with (at present) no age restrictions that the huge fountains of sexual desire that most teenagers were up to the 90s have been drained.  Why spend vast amounts of time, effort, and possible embarrassment and humiliation for something that is available at the click of a mouse?

I don't think that's a good thing and age restriction is needed; it is turning teenagers into the seedy, jaded dirty mac brigade.

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10 hours ago, JoeDavola said:

Aye I'd be interested to know if anyone actually knows a Tinder Chad in real life, i.e. a top tier good looking alpha who photoraphs well and is actually banging tons of girls on Tinder.

Since I don't actually hang about with such chaps, they only exist as a theoretical idea but they must be out there. Would be fascinating to get access to Tinder's databases and chat logs and see what the stats are.

And the fact that I'd be interested in getting access to a database to run the stats, shows why I'm not getting laid.

I've got a mate like this. A fireman who, when I last asked him, reckons he'd shagged about 2-300 women. I asked him this about ten years ago so Christ knows what his current number is.

To be honest, he's a bit of a pain in the arse with it. He just can't help chasing women, no matter the context or levels of inappropriateness. Travel 100 miles to have a catch-up pint and he'll disappear to be found chatting up some woman at the bar, I've also stopped introducing him to female friends as he just tries to shag them and sometimes it's just a bit cringey. We were out once with a friend of Mrs H. (seriously attractive, a proper head turner) and I had to have a word with him about dialling it down a bit. I was embarrassed on his behalf.

He's a good bloke when there aren't attractive women about but you wouldn't leave him alone in a room with your sister.

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3 minutes ago, Frank Hovis said:

Yes.

Much as I dislike him these days Bob Geldof, born 1951 in small town Ireland, gave a telling insight into the world as was in that he said he could not conceive what a twat (his word, meaning female genitalia) looked like as a teenager.  My memories of growing up in the 70s were similar.  I think the first time I saw it depicted was in a pron mag that was being loaned out at school when I was thirteen.

In that sort of environment there is no decent substitute for sex or easy access to that substitute as there is these days so there was strong desire (usually unfulfilled) for the opposite sex and going both ways, not just boys pursuing girls.

Nowadays there is so much freely available high definition full colour hardcore pron with (at present) no age restrictions that the huge fountains of sexual desire that most teenagers were up to the 90s have been drained.  Why spend vast amounts of time, effort, and possible embarrassment and humiliation for something that is available at the click of a mouse?

I don't think that's a good thing and age restriction is needed; it is turning teenagers into the seedy, jaded dirty mac brigade.

Perhaps it should be restricted to married people only.

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57 minutes ago, Melchett said:

I knew a guy like this, good mate of mine actually, known him since we were teenagers. He was short, too. What he had was lashings of confidence and social skills. And you can’t fake or learn the second. You’re born with it. Sorry.

of course now he’s a fat short bald fifty something company director with 2.3 kids etc so isn’t getting the same action. But in his day... holy crap. We shared a room for a year at uni, and I used to routinely kip on the sofa. Except one Saturday night where his bird told me to clear off to the bedroom because she wanted to be shagged round the living room all night... 😆

ETA whereas me - tall dark fit and handsome yet introvert and doing a science degree. Four years at uni without even coming close to a single shag.

If someone had sat me down at 16 and told me it wasn't about looks, or clothes, or being fit, but all about having tons of confidence, and a zero fucks attitude with girls I'd have had a totally different youth. Now being older and way more confident its like fucking magic, it really is, sometimes I can't believe it myself when I see the effect it has on the lasses

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51 minutes ago, Frank Hovis said:

Yes.

Much as I dislike him these days Bob Geldof, born 1951 in small town Ireland, gave a telling insight into the world as was in that he said he could not conceive what a twat (his word, meaning female genitalia) looked like as a teenager.  My memories of growing up in the 70s were similar.  I think the first time I saw it depicted was in a pron mag that was being loaned out at school when I was thirteen.

In that sort of environment there is no decent substitute for sex or easy access to that substitute as there is these days so there was strong desire (usually unfulfilled) for the opposite sex and going both ways, not just boys pursuing girls.

Nowadays there is so much freely available high definition full colour hardcore pron with (at present) no age restrictions that the huge fountains of sexual desire that most teenagers were up to the 90s have been drained.  Why spend vast amounts of time, effort, and possible embarrassment and humiliation for something that is available at the click of a mouse? 

I don't think that's a good thing and age restriction is needed; it is turning teenagers into the seedy, jaded dirty mac brigade.

From the age of 13 I've been watching porn online, like many it progressed into extreme things when the thrills of the previous extremity wore off. I progressed (regressed?) into some pretty weird shit and gave it up a few years ago. I remember thinking frequently before that though, I didn't really need a girlfriend as I could just turn on my computer.

As a millennial, among my peers there's definitely a direct correlation between those who consumed porn heavily in their teens/twenties and how successful their love lives are (or aren't). I don't agree with David Cameron's great firewall, but I do think porn on tap is deeply destructive to teenage boys who can't say no. It's all very sad.

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36 minutes ago, Talking Monkey said:

If someone had sat me down at 16 and told me it wasn't about looks, or clothes, or being fit,

But those things give you confidence; you cannot just magically create self-confidence out of nothing. You have to gradually obtain it through being successful in something - making loads of money, getting muscular, etc.

56 minutes ago, Sgt Hartman said:

I've got a mate like this. A fireman who, when I last asked him, reckons he'd shagged about 2-300 women. I asked him this about ten years ago so Christ knows what his current number is.

To be honest, he's a bit of a pain in the arse with it. He just can't help chasing women, no matter the context or levels of inappropriateness. Travel 100 miles to have a catch-up pint and he'll disappear to be found chatting up some woman at the bar, I've also stopped introducing him to female friends as he just tries to shag them and sometimes it's just a bit cringey. We were out once with a friend of Mrs H. (seriously attractive, a proper head turner) and I had to have a word with him about dialling it down a bit. I was embarrassed on his behalf.

He's a good bloke when there aren't attractive women about but you wouldn't leave him alone in a room with your sister.

Sounds like a bit of a sex pest to me. I don't know about others but I've never looked up to people like that, quite the opposite in fact.

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That's sort of what I feared @spunko2010, though few are as honest about it.

I've posted before about how on some / many cold wet Sunday afternoons as a kid there really was nothing to do and that mind-numbing boredom fed long-term creativity, ambition, and a drive to take up opportunities when they arose.

If I had been able to escape into some interactive online game (or pron) I'm sure that I would have done so and ended up with every waking hour filled with all-consuming entertainment without ever feeling the need to leave my bedroom.

It would however have stolen something essential from me: my self; my self that had the space to grow in those Sunday afternoons of watching the rain drops join together on the window.

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4 minutes ago, Frank Hovis said:

That's sort of what I feared @spunko2010, though few are as honest about it.

I've posted before about how on some / many cold wet Sunday afternoons as a kid there really was nothing to do and that mind-numbing boredom fed long-term creativity, ambition, and a drive to take up opportunities when they arose.

If I had been able to escape into some interactive online game (or pron) I'm sure that I would have done so and ended up with every waking hour filled with all-consuming entertainment without ever feeling the need to leave my bedroom. 

It would however have stolen something essential from me: my self; my self that had the space to grow in those Sunday afternoons of watching the rain drops join together on the window.

My parents did try to control my computer usage but there is only so much you can do. Luckily I'm quite introspective so realised how destructive it was before it was "too late" albeit I was quite emotionally stunted until my mid/early 20s.

I've learned to love and hate the internet in equal measure. Without it we wouldn't have DOSBODS so... :Old:

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